Comments on: Dark Days…

By: Wahu

Wahu — Thu, 16 Dec 2004 12:14:25 +0000

Ms X clearly had a very active imagination, (nearly called her that woman!) what business is it of hers about the christian bit since when was she put on earth to judge people. How does she knows whats makes a woman, as Kaki says she was projecting because for one thing l know you were brought up well and that she saw that and resented it. As Mich says and l agree totally with him, I am proud of you and all you have been able to achieve. Keep it up PHENOMENAL WOMAN-YOU! A. Wahu Kui Says: Thank you! That being brought up well issue did bug her; when I told her I was moving and that I had discussed it with my family she wanted to know what sortof people they were and how they made their decisions etc etc. I told her don't even go there! The education factor too was an issue.

By: Mich

Mich — Thu, 16 Dec 2004 10:46:28 +0000

Its amazing to think back and see how total the change has been between how sad you were then and how happy you are now. Strange how one thing can pull you down so much you get to the point that you could give up on the whole thing. I'm proud of you for standing up for yourself and having the strength to get out of what was obviously a very negative situation. Kui Says: Its only with hindsight that I realise how much my home situation affected my experience. I never imagined that something like that would have a knock on effect. The minute I moved and got settled everything seemed so much clearer and I began to really enjoy Belize.

By: Kaki

Kaki — Thu, 16 Dec 2004 00:17:32 +0000

Wow.
When I was reading your piece above I could not help but actually feel sorry for the woman. I have a feeling that what she was telling you was more projection that how she percieved you. You know how people can sometimes be saying things but are in reality speaking to themselves or projecting their issues onto you?
I am glad you defended yourself cauz as you said, you deserve respect period. No ifs and buts or strings attached. Where does she come off disrespecting you like that? I mean goodness! Anyway…I had to rant for you. Who would have thunk that Belize would have had soo much drama!!!

Stay covered girl.

Kui Says: I agree with you about the projection; She used to talk about how she came to Jesus late in life and her ‘past’ so maybe she thinks every twenty-something behaves the way she did.